There are so many people who are craving peace, joy and love in their lives. I know many who have felt so much disappointment, anger and hurt the past few months and have a strong desire to change their lives. They want to feel passion, happy and alive again. I was one of those people.
The way to get back into alignment with yourself and spirit, and living a life you love is through forgiveness. Forgiveness is a choice, an internal process. Forgiveness is a gift you receive because you have chosen to focus on other goals in your life, such as – better relationships, great health, a positive self-esteem, self-discovery, etc. Once you are done with that painful road of un-forgiveness you will make your way to the healing process and this is where you find love and inner peace. Forgiveness means:
• Accepting what happened,
• Letting go of your negatively charged energy so that you stop attracting undesired experiences into your life again and again,
• Changing your perception and shifting your paradigm, and
• Removing the toxic influences in your life and flushing out the toxins from your mind, body and soul.
I use to find it very difficult to forgive. I believed, as most believe, that if I forgive I am condoning, tolerating and even trusting my trespasser. I felt this would make me susceptible to more violations or abuse. What I have learned is that forgiveness is about freeing myself from the jail of my own mind and even my own heart. Because I had even built a prison around my heart – no one could get in and I surely did not allow myself to get out.
I tortured myself for days on end repeating the same madness of my abuse over and over again in my head. The anger grew inside me with each passing year until I created a severe physical ailment ever from all the repressed feeling I had in my body. I also attracted a toxic relationship that would mirror to me what I thought about the most.
It was in that perfect space when I could not escape what was inescapable – myself – that I sought spiritual guidance to help me travel through my healing journey. It was here that I found my self, my truth, my light, my love and my all. It was here that I was able to let go of past hurts, let Spirit and Be Open to Love. I forgave so I could move forward with my life and take my power back. Then, I started and continue to create more loving, kind and authentic relationships with like minded and hearted people. People who honor and love me for me and I for them.
Forgiving is a process of letting go and healing by gently cutting cords to the past. Forgiveness can lead to:
1) A sense of freedom and lightness
2) A release of blocked lower vibration beliefs and emotions
3) A healing of the heart and other chakras
4) Improved relationships to yourself, Spirit and others
5) An alignment of the mind, body, spirit and emotions
Would you like to learn more about more about forgiveness and actually take the step to forgive? Sign up for my in person workshop – “GETTING ON WITH LIFE: THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS.“
You are so loved so love yourself just as much!!
