Have you been wondering what it takes to meet the love of your life? Do you wonder why he/she isn’t in your life right now? Or are you wondering if the person you are with is that love of your life?
Every single relationship you have mirrors to you who you really are on the inside. If you are feeling unworthy or undeserving you will attract and have relationships that mirror that to you. You might say to yourself I feel worthy and deserving so why am I attracting and in relationship with people who treat me the way the do. Really, take a good look at yourself in the mirror. Do you hear your own thoughts? I mean really hear them? Are you being honest with yourself? You might be saying things to yourself like, “that was so stupid of me to do” or “I can’t be with someone as wonderful at that” or “I am not enough,” etc. These are the thoughts that keep you from having that which you deeply desire –unconditional love. And the feelings that are created from these thoughts are anything but loving. The thoughts create feelings of pain, anger, shame, guilt, etc. You may be saying to yourself “ok I get it so what next?” Heal yourself, feel and release your painful feelings, change your thoughts and see the truth of who you are which is everything that is full of unconditional love and light.
What about those of you that have examined your thoughts and have taken an inventory of your patterns? Those of you who have uncovered your limiting beliefs and thoughts and have worked on changing them to more loving and empowering beliefs. Are you seeing the fruits of your labor? How do the new mirrors look to you? Is it everything you imagined? Have you validated for yourself your growth? Do you see how you have broken the pattern of your past and are stepping into a new beginning of creating your future? Are you living and enjoying your life? Or are you still afraid to step into the new because it just doesn’t feel comfortable to you? Do you feel like you don’t know how to act because this all new for you? Well, here’s a hint – stop acting and be you.
The love of your life is not some myth or something outside of you. The moment you stop trying to be someone else, or looking to some else to fill/save you, or being that someone who was programmed by negative beliefs from your parents, teacher, etc. and just be you is the moment you will meet the love of your life. The love of your life is you in all of your perfection right now. This love is here to teach you, to heal, embrace and connect you with all that is and ever was. You may have forgotten what this love feels or looks like but it hasn’t and never will forget you. Just be you the real you and you will be able to feel that love the love of your life that steals your breath away. The type of love that makes you melts in awe of its beauty and power. And when you allow yourself to feel this love, I mean give yourself permission to feel it because you know you deserve and are worthy of it you will attract relationships that mirror to you exactly that – YOU!
Love Yourself! Weekly Assignment
1) What are the qualities you desire in a partner? Make a list of them.
2) Make a list of all of your attributes.
3) Compare lists
4) Make another list of what you need to heal in order to have the qualities you desire in your partner.
You are so loved so love yourself just as much.
